Wednesday, November 16, 2016

This little girl...

This is McBud.  Can you believe it?

Yesterday we went to see the movie "Dr. Strange" and I turned sideways to say something to her and had to readjust my head because she was visibly taller.

What is happening?  She turned 12 this year.  She is so grown up in so many ways.  But in many she is still a little girl.  At least to me she is.

She likes to spend time with her friend Jaegar from school. Mr. Finn took them to a baseball game to watch the Royals and they got amazing seats up close.  She loved that she was the talk of school the next day.



 She has started coming into her own this year.  She wrote the play for composting at her school and played a part in it.  It's fun to see her so animated and enjoying herself.


She is making friends easier...

And trying new things.  The pained look is because there was a spider in the kayak with her and she was freaking out.
We have a ways to go but I see an amazing girl that continues to surprise me.

Thursday, November 10, 2016

Nuggets

Once in a while I find these nuggets of gold in my photo file.

Thank you, my son, for giving me that "melt your heart feeling" this morning.

I would love to say the cat is sweet, but we all know differently.  She tricked us into coming home with us from the shelter.  Sweet?

Not so much.

But the boy loves her...

Saturday, November 5, 2016

Welcome Visitor

 
Everyone knows how much I love my Aunt.  She is one of my dearest friends and my favorite Aunt. We talk at least once weekly and a minimum of one hour at a time.  I really couldn't imagine life without her in it.  She is also the grandmother of my sweet kiddos.  A job she took on willingly and that has blessed the lives of our children.

She came to visit us right before Mr. Finn and my birthday on September 5th.  She stayed for three weeks and was so much fun to run to Bee Creek every morning after dropping off the kids at school for a "Fluffy".  (that's what they named their Mormon hot cocoa)
 My kids adore her!  She is so full of love and ENERGY.  How does one get to 70 years old and still be running around with such energy.  I struggle at 49  to motivate myself to put on clothes for the day.
I have a "To Do" list that is always on my kitchen counter.  Many mornings I pretend it isn't there but she always found it and would suggest we check something off it.  Sadly there was always a good amount of work that went before the checking off part, but she was fun to work with and if she could work that hard, well, I certainly could to.  Thank you my sweet Aunt for pushing me along and for making it such a wonderful time.

Many decision were made, many things were fixed and furniture was bought during her visit.  And not to mention she bought me a shirt and sweater that are my favorite and I hardly wear anything else these days.  Thank you again.

I love you.

Thursday, August 11, 2016

All aboard the sleep train

Let's talk a minute about sleep training...

That awful time when a parent feels obligated to train their child to sleep independently of its parents.
So that the child can learn to put itself to sleep and give the parents much needed rest without a child draped all over their corpse.  Oops, I mean body that feels like a corpse because it is dead tired.
So that they wake from their slumber refreshed...
And immediately return to a state of peaceful rest.
While you...
Lie awake...
Taking pictures...
To prove...


That you failed at sleep training.


Wednesday, August 10, 2016

Mission Revival

In July last year I was able to attend a Reunion for the Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic Mission in Utah.  It has been 25 years since I served the Lord.
 My sweet friend Sandy picked me up from the airport and we played for a while.  I have missed this lady.  I met her when I was pregnant with Miss Boo and moved away when I was pregnant with the Dude.  The kids are 12 and 10 now.   Too long away from this lady.  Soraya surprised us and snuck behind us in a store.  What a calculated, fabulous surprise by her and the help of her husband, my brother in arms, Jon.

I expected to only spend an hour at the reunion as it's been a while.  I could hardly remember names of more than a couple missionaries.  My spanish was sketchy and I wasn't in a very social mood.

At the check in was several people, I assumed were missionaries from the DR.  As one of them grabbed my hand and said, Hermana Wiltbank, all of sudden I knew who he was.  Elder Belnap.  Bel nap...such wonderful memories came flooding back into my mind.  All of sudden, names I couldn't remember seconds before were there.  Places and Spanish.  My mind was opened.  I wanted to cry from happiness.  (I never understood that saying before.)
 And then my sweet companion of La Fe decided to come although she has said she wouldn't be able to.  Cindi Steele Buckley and I taught the gospel to Soraya's mother before we met Soraya.  I was anxious for Soraya to meet the one that helped convert her mother all those years ago.  Soraya's mother passed away last year so it gave her something special to hold on to.

Then she got to meet the elder that baptized her Mom.  And of course, Elder Budenbender photobombing us in the back.  He was there when we taught Soraya.
Elder O'Connor was one of my favorites.   His uncle taught science to me in High School.  So much fun to have something in common in an uncommon country.

And Boone... sigh

What a great friend and missionary.  We arrived in the mission field together and served in our second areas for a long time together in San Pedro, becoming life long friends.

He surprised me also by saying he wouldn't be there so I wasn't looking for him.  All of sudden I hear as I am being picked up and swung around, "Wiltbank!".  Sheer joy is the only word to describe how I felt that night.  I can only imagine how much sweeter and joyful it will be when we arrive home after our journey here on earth to see those we love.  

I do not doubt that these people will be there for me as well.   A mission binds you for the eternities.

 Soraya has a sweet daughter that calls me Aunti (Tia).  My dear Amanda.  Families are more than we are born into and I am so grateful for that.
 And to top everything off and to show how the Lord brings those into our lives and how they can always be part of it... sweet Haley Jensen from Mississippi.  She is done with school and working at BYU.  She came and hung with us for a while.  So grateful the Lord has blessed me with such kind people.

I wish this picture were better, but this is President Sorenson and his wife Elaine.  He changed my life.  I can never repay him for putting my life on a better track and teaching me so much that has followed me until today.  
He gave an amazing talk.  We hung on every word.  He reminded us that Satan is real and we shouldn't forget that.  It's like driving on the road and not realizing we are passing the center line or on the shoulder.  We should constantly "Check Ourselves" to make sure we are on the straight and narrow.  He gave me personal counsel and reminded me how close he is to our Heavenly Father.  How he has stayed humble and workable so the Lord can use him to do good constantly.

What a great time with friends.  Sadly I will miss the next one February 2017 in the DR that will celebrate Presidents 70th Birthday.  Good people.